I would confidently say that the most painful experience emotionally is the death of a loved and the second to it is finding out that your loved one was after all not yours alone (though the rating is something personal rather than a scientifically proven law). After loving a man so much, the least a girl will desire is to find out that her husband or boyfriend was cheating on her, and since most men and boys do cheat on their partners, the best way never to offend the partner is to master the art of telling lies.
"The best way to have a lady hate you, or otherwise not like you, is to tell her the truth" were the words from my room mate when I asked him on how best to keep my girlfriend loving me. I insisted that I will be truthful to my girl but experience later revealed to me that she would never let me in her life simply because I will always admit to her that so and so was close to me though not too close as to go out with or date.
And since I desired to be an honest man, I decided then to play it cool and be faithful to only one girl. The question then in most of the ladies' minds was why the ladies did not like me or rather why I was not going out with any ladies. So, in order to please a woman, you have to prove that you are desirable and at the same time only meant to be with one of them.
This paradox always leave most of the men with only one option; to date more than one lady, cause drama and have ready lies to satisfy the woman's logic. When a man has the therefore perfected the art of lying, he becomes a center of attraction for most women who will always fight for him. Instead of any or all of the women giving up and letting it go, maybe leaving the male liar all alone and lonely, they always turn to themselves and try to their level best to win the affection of the cheating man.
Why do women find it attractive or satisfying to cling onto a liar as a boyfriend? The reason lies on the belief that they can change the man into an adorable, honest and truthful boy. If a woman can successfully feel that she can win the heart of a cheating man, the she will feel that she has won a war worth remembering forever.
Amazingly the ladies themselves will never want to admit that telling those lies makes them happy and desire to be with you even more. It is in this respect that I would like to let every man realize that many ladies prefer being lied to and even if you read online that the girl does not want anything to do with liars, the fact is that if you go on telling the truth you stand a great chance of losing any ladies.
Finally to the ladies, it is obvious that the make up of a woman demands that she constantly fight to maintain her man and never let go of him even if he is the worst criminal in the art of lying. Even if you have realized that your partner is cheating on you, you will not readily let him go but most cases believe his lies knowing very well that he is liar. I wonder when you will ever fully realize this and include in the online profiles that you are looking for a man who is the best liar.
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